Kristi Lee International
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Tuesday, April 29, 2014
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
The comma of grace.
by Jon Acuff
As I’ve written about before, one Easter I got into a bit of
a yelling match with a guy in a visor at an Easter egg hunt. The whole thing
was exactly how Jesus imagined us honoring that day. We were at my
in-laws country club, which always makes me feel a little weird. We’re
certainly rich in a global way, but I kind of think that they can all tell that
I’m just a visitor. I feel like the real members can smell middle class on me.
(Which kind of smells like sun ripened raspberry and feet by the way.) So
after I pointed to where a golden egg was hidden to my then 5 year old
daughter, he yelled at me for cheating. I told him that his white visor made
him look like a financial planner who was wearing his “casual uniform.” Whole
thing got very out of hand. (I didn’t say that, but I thought it later when we
were driving home, which is where most of my comebacks occur.)
This year, we spent Easter in Chapel Hill at my parents
church. Standing there waiting for the egg hunt to start I had a flashback to
that rugby scrum one from a few years ago. I might always remember that moment
at Easter, but there’s a more important one I won’t forget. One I’ve written
about before.
I’m talking about the “comma of grace.”
I found it in Luke 22. In that chapter, Jesus is being led
away. He is headed to the cross. A million prophecies are coming true and chaos
is breaking out a little amongst disciples that up to this point have sworn to
serve until death. In the midst of that, he pulls Simon aside because he knows
that Simon will soon betray him. He says to Simon in Luke 22:31-32:
“Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you,
Simon, that your faith may not fail.” And then, he drops the 9 words that
I can’t write about enough. The 9 words that I often turn to when I’ve failed
and messed up again and feel hopelessly undeserving of hope.
Jesus tells Simon:
“And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”
Do you see what Jesus is saying in that first half of the
sentence, And when you have turned back?
He’s saying:
You are going to fail.
You are going to fall.
You are going to lose it.
You are going to make commitments and break them.
You are not going to always be the man you family needs.
You are going to sin.
But, but, but, you will turn back.
You will come back. You will know redemption. You will know
return. You will know a God that not only allows the “comeback” but actually
celebrates it. When I read the phrase “And when you have turned back,” I
read a loud, wild picture of what grace really looks like. And then, if
you go too fast, you’ll miss the comma. You’ll miss the gap that sits quietly
between the next thought. You’ll miss it because like me, you might misread the
second half of that sentence. Here’s what it says: “And when you
have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”
But here’s how we write it sometimes: “And when you
have turned back, repent for a long time and stay a long way from me until you
are clean enough to return to my presence.” “And when you have turned
back, please stay far away from any ministry opportunities. You are too broken
to help other people. How can you minister to others when your own life is so
messed up? “And when you have turned back, here are the 57 things you
need to do in order to earn back my good favor.”
But Christ doesn’t do that! He drops a comma like a grenade.
He gives us the gift of the comma and then asks us to
strengthen our brothers. Not beat ourselves with emotional whips. Or lay in a
hole of shame. Or stay to the shadows of church, afraid to be seen. He
wants you. In his arms. By his side. Surrendered and free in his presence.
Not because you deserve it or have earned it or are perfect.
Because of Easter.
That’s it.
We all get the comma of grace.
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
What Do You Choose Today?
It's interesting when people experience the same event and the way each chooses to react, perceive, and process it determines their success in life. Success can mean many things: their feeling of happiness, surrounded by close friends, financial outlook, or health. How can one person rise up out of unspeakable circumstances and be successful, while another can get knocked down easily with a minor bump in the road? What do you choose today?
Sunday, April 20, 2014
Entrepreneurship Isn't For Everyone
Entrepreneurship - that leap from working in a "career" to working on your dream. Deciding to follow your passion and live the life of an entrepreneur takes risk, courage and a whole lotta heart. I decided to leave my corporate career eight years ago and have learned what I'm made of through many lessons along the way! At times I found myself going from feelings of excitement to anxiety, wondering if I made the right decision. Now, eight years later I know without a doubt it was the best decision I made for my life. I have made lifelong friends who have blessed me tremendously - people who I never would have met had I not stepped up and said "yes" to opportunities. If you're at a crossroads in your life, wondering if you should dust off your dream and pursue it, here's a question to consider..."What will my life look like in 5 years if I stay on my current path?" If you don't like the answer to that, then taking a step towards your dream is worth your time. Find the fortitude to go after the vision that was placed on your heart - only you have the unique gifts and talents to make it shine. I would love to hear what you decide!